For partners and family
A baby changes a whole household. Partners and family are welcome in this work, in the ways that suit you.
Partners, in their own sessions
A partner can have sessions of their own. The first months are hard for them too, and they don't always have anywhere to say so.
Together, with the parent
Some parents want a partner in the room for a few sessions, to talk about sleep, work, roles and closeness. We agree on it first, and either of you can say no.
Grandparents and other family
Family can be a great help or a strain. We can talk about it in your own sessions, and a relative joins only if you want them to.
Who is in the room is up to you
What you say in your own sessions stays yours. If a partner joins, we agree beforehand what will and won't be shared, and nothing changes without your say.
Dr. Newsome sees a partner on their own only if you both agree, or she refers them to a colleague.
Your sessions stay yours
Joint sessions are agreed first
Either of you can say no
Questions from partners and family
Can my partner come to my first session?
Usually the first session is for you alone, so we can talk freely. A partner can join a later session if you both want that.
Can my partner see Dr. Newsome on their own?
Only if you both agree. Otherwise she can suggest a colleague, so each of you has your own space.
Can a grandparent or friend join?
Sometimes, if you want them there and we have talked about what they'll hear. Ask when you write.
Want to bring someone along?
Tell us who, and we'll talk it through before anyone comes.